Inferiority Complex and Superiority Complex, The Satanic Tools That Are Destroying Homes

 Inferiority complex and superiority complex are the two tools Satan uses today to break homes. 

One day, Satan called his other satan entities, and send them on the land to go spread atrocities. They came back with different joyous reports as they believed. Each with different reports. Some caused accident, some destroyed relationship between two friends and some caused rancor between master and his apprehensive. Non was given trophy until one came and said broke a home totally. He separated husband and wife. Satan now raised his hand and commend him as the champion. 

Truly, family is the nucleus part of a society. You want to destroy a society, destroy a family first. This is the main weapon of Satan and his cohorts.

Because, the husband could not meet up with financial and other responsibilities at home, inferiority complex set in. In order to cover his faults, the man starts finding faults with everything his wife does, start complaining on issue that doesn't matter, and start hardening on the children. Whenever he does some out of the many to be done, his starts bragging about as if he is doing everything.

And imagine a wife contributing to the children by paying part of the school fees of the children, instead of the wife seeing it as helping hand to her husband, superiority complex set in. She starts doing as if she is the who has been doing everything starts feeling bossy at home. Starts being out of control. 

Manager (wife) becomes bossy and husband ( the supposed CEO of his home) seeing by wife as being incompetent.

 Due to inferiority complex, husband decides to take another wife, believing she is going to be counteracting the senior wife, forgetting that his inefficiency doesn't end with financial status, now making his life more complicated. 

And wife, now thinking the only way out is to start looking and keeping  "alaanu", sugar daddy.

Is taking second wife the solution to the problem. With one wife, you are having problem. Will taking second wife not complicating the wahala at home.

Is going after alaanu, by the wife losing her dignity, the lasting solution for the wife.

Both parties now call Satan in and Satan now take over, just because husbands and wives forgot the spirit of Islam they started their lives with. At least, they did nikah and the alfas on the occasion preached to both parties.

Let the husband know that having wife is to have companion, whom he makes happy by showing her love and care and with whom they worship Allah together to live a life of happiness here on the Earth and in the hereafter.

And let the wife know that she is specially blessed with a loving,  caring and concerned husband, to console and comfort her and worship Allah together to accomplish their goals together.

وَمِنۡ ءَايَٰتِهِۦٓ أَنۡ خَلَقَ لَكُم مِّنۡ أَنفُسِكُمۡ أَزۡوَٰجٗا لِّتَسۡكُنُوٓاْ إِلَيۡهَا وَجَعَلَ بَيۡنَكُم مَّوَدَّةٗ وَرَحۡمَةًۚ إِنَّ فِي ذَٰلِكَ لَأٓيَٰتٖ لِّقَوۡمٖ يتفكرون

And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquillity in them; and He placed between you affection and mercy. Indeed in that are signs for a people who give thought.

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Salamu alaykum.

Musa Kamoru.